For what it’s worth this is one of my first real vivid memories.
I was approximately 3½ years old.
The year was 1964 and lived in an unusual barn style 2 story house on the edge of town but still populated area.
My parents were upstairs in bedroom, I was downstairs and glanced towards a window on the side of the house and observed the head and shoulders of a gray looking in.
Didn’t know what a grey was supposed to look like until much later.
Not saying abduction at all.
Vividly recall staring from about 5' or ' away at the creature and a powerful almost telepathic memory of me over and over silently projecting, What are you?.
I don’t recall any received reply or acknowledgment, just a large almond, dark eyed stare from a short, small, thin necked creature.
My minds memory recalls depth to the image, unlike cardboard cutout or a mask.
After about a minute or a little less, I fled up the stairs and tried to tell my parents I had seen something outside the window.
I received the it’s alright talk and hugs and have had that memory all my life.